Important things to know about BDSM fun?

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Do you still get confused with the BDSM term due to lack of experience? 

BDSM is a way to explore the power and excitement through wide range of sexy and fun acts. BDSM is built on the concept communication, trust and respect; it is a great way to discover the sexuality, mentality and physicality.

But, in the popular culture BDSM has a disgrace attached to it and its members. People who love the pleasure of BDSM are classified as mentally ill, perverts, or missing out on moral behavior. Our Indian culture ignominy sexuality in open, largely female sexuality, and demoralize the freedom to discover sexuality and experiencing the lovely moments by yourself. 

BDSM stands for exploration of one’s sexuality while accepting all the genders, lifestyles, relationships and bodies. Most of the core BDSM players are most self-analytical, respectful and self-evolved. The roots of BDSM activities are dispersed throughout the history. It was first displayed in ancient Kama Sutra’s portrayal of spanking and displayed in the ancient Kama sutra’s incorporation of sensual spanking. There are number of European references from 15th century originating from parlours and many brothels offering bondage gear such as handcuffs, adult products, restraints, floggers, Whips, ticklers, sex toys for men and various other punishment toys of 18th century. 

In USA alone, there are over 5 million BDSM enthusiasts considers they really enjoy having fun with their partners using adult products in India and several men and women get easily turned on by the imagery, pornography, erotic novels at the same time.

BDSM is a huge term that refers to several other kinks. This term can be further broken down into number of categories:

  1. Submission and Dominance or Master and Slave – Here, the dominating person is in charge over other person and orders his/her submissive (the one who  take orders from dominating guy)
  1.  Discipline and bondage – It refers to the activity where in one person uses physical restraints over another one. 
  1. Sado Masochism – The unanimous receiving and giving sexual pleasure from the activities that incorporates delivering or taking pain and humiliation from the partner.

At times, all these activities can overlap during sexual play that may involve all or some specific acts.

Furthermore, if you are a fresher to the whole act of BDSM and are excited to explore more about BDSM, you need to consider about what regions interest you the most. Do you crave for dominant roles or love being a submissive and thinking about any of these turns you on? Do you get turned on by the idea of feeling little bit pain or making the partner dish out till the point he or she can’t take it anymore? Do you like being tied up and getting whipped on the ass, or maybe you like the idea of dominate your partner while staying on the top or maybe you like both of the behaviors and alternatively switch in between while having fun in the bedroom. 

Always remember one thing, being a dominant or submissive is an art of engaging into erotic activities and it does not need to reflect the same way on other parts of your life. To be honest with you, there are number of straight and gay couples who like the idea of exploring opposite roles of what they are supposed to do in their day to day life.

BDSM products categories

There are various types of product categories available out there that you can discover and remember experimentation is a key when you want to explore BDSM products and sex toys. Here is list of categories of BDSM activity, but in case you crave for areas you like most, you can do your online research and you will find countless resources online such as adult articles, magazines, blogs, books serving any specific fetish.

Restraints (Bondage) – Obstructing a person’s body movements by using handcuffs, restraints, ropes or by directly ordering other partner not to move. These products can be the primary goal of the play and can be further developed into mental play or sensational BDSM fun stuff. More kinks in this category would be – Blindfolds, bondage toys, cleavage restraints, Rope play, gags and rope dresses such as Shibari.

Sensation / Pain play – This category of acts include applying pain or inflicting kinky sensations. Some of the examples of the kinks in this category would be – utilizing BDSM toys, biting, flogging, whipping, wax play, clamping, biting, tickling, spanking and electric play. 

Emotional play – These activities include stuff that directly causes psychological impact. More kinks to be discovered in this section would be name calling, body shaming, collars, wild sex, slavery, dishonor etc.

Communication is the key

Sex toys India is something that you can have without talking, or having any conversation or dirty talk. But, BDSM play requires clear cut conversation between two partners that should be non-judgmental, intimate and clear. That one is the most important element of respect as it lets you reveal your sensual desire openly and get it greeted with respect from your partner. 

Having BDSM fun with your partner requires clear-cut instructions that may include asking difficult questions, revealing desires in full details and not getting disappointed completely by accepting beating and humiliation up to an agreed level.